"Life is not a bed of roses, thorns are a part of it and should be accepted by just as we accept the beautiful side of life. Let reality be a reality because everything must come to end. There is a sun behind the cloud."

Life begins on that day when your mother smiles by ignoring your crying face. From that day we grown-up until and unless our duty in this mother Earth comes to an end. The transition from birth to death is quite common but here the point is that what are the events that we experienced, what are the outcomes we get from that deeds?


Let's take an example; a baby son finds it to be difficult to climb the stair the exact things happen to my grand mother, most of the time. A baby is found lying on a bed the case is same for our grand parents. So from above cited example it is evident that there is hardships , struggles in every phase of life  but what important is to keep moving because there is saying -Nothing good comes cheaply, so we shouldn't be surprised when we meet the hard while going for the best. Hard times are not quiet times. Good thing takes time.

This world is a grand arena where fights go on without end. Struggle begins prior to fertilization when that sperm swims in acidic medium among 3 lakhs of his category but at last only one able to fertilize the ovum, after that in mother womb the struggle in the form of sucking the life-blood of the mother. The cry of the newborn baby burns propels the mother to burn 125 kcal.  When it grows to a man there begins another phase of its fight. First begins his lifelong struggle with the forces of nature, the food, health, economic, social, physical, mental, etc., in the adult stage, we must go through a period of stress and strain as it involves identity crisis. After that, in adulthood, the struggle comes in the forms of love, relationship, society, need for money. In the young stage, the problem is addressed in the form of job, marriage, family man, etc, another most common thing in case of parents are that they have to deal with their annoying child. .it does not end here it knocks on the door in old age also in the form of expectation from the child, responsibility towards family, society, repayment of the loan, building own house, leading aristocratic life, to some extent it is true that Food and poison are held before man, it is for him to choose the one and reject the other. When we speak of life as a tale of the survival of the fittest, we but lay our stress on this aspect, on man’s continual struggle with natural environments. So Darwin once said that “Struggle for existence’’ because in order to be on the right path, we must overcome these obstacles, sometimes these are really like blessings but the matter is that we don’t understand this at that time.


Lastly, many times I came across people accusing Gods of the good or bad that happens to them, but the fact is cited in the below slokas.

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