“There is always some madness in love, but there is also always some reason in madness.”

Honestly, you are not qualified to write a single word until and unless you feel this elixir gift of nature. You need to be involved in this ephemeral universal, mysterious phenomenon in order to initiate the article. Because, since the dawn of history there are a lot of exemplifying personalities such as Romeo Juliet who just express their love not by words but by their virtuous deeds and their deeds make them famous. Hence it is well written that ‘LOVE’ can’t be seen as a feeling but as enacted emotion.

What is love? Is it attraction or intimacy? Love in fact is in unison with these things, it is spiritual, divine, sacred not physical or figurative. It is the union of soul and body, not something you can use a microscope to observe or not something to derive using algebraic expressions.

Love is not about being hired help, love is not about obligation done with a cold soul but it should be novel action and inherited feeling that must be wedded to the deed. It is when one person believes in another person and shows it through mutual understanding and mutual respect. The first love mentioned in mythology is not about romanticism but parental love. “I would do anything for him/her this is the expression of the parents who so recently being hired into the world by God, nobody knows whether he will survive or not but this unconditional expression from his parents embedded with the feeling that will procrastinate the real definition of love.

There is a saying that alone you can smile but together we can laugh, alone you can enjoy but together we can celebrate. We barely need a partner to ask whether this dress outfit is perfect for me or not whether this hair cut suits me or not? All these we get an honest opinion from our loved ones, those who care for us and make our happiness paramount. And to make such a bond with somebody you need trust, belief, and someone upon whom you need not think twice on his / her statement once he/she suggests. Love is a cyclic unidirectional process. It starts in the form of parental and then follows family, society, partner and terminates on parental love at old age.

Annoyingness, anger, pain, stubbornness are some of the ingredients of romantic love but it is all about how you drive your bonding with mutualism in that varied situation. You need not tell don’t be sad, you are difficult to handle, what’s happen, everything will be good, keep patience like sentences you have to listen to his/ her silence, you have to available always whether it is their good time or bad time, you have to give some space just to make them feel something special.

About the author